OK, guys, I know you are bitter. In fact extremely bitter. You spent boat loads, and boat loads of money on lawyers. To put it simply, you lost your shirt. Your ex-wife has the kids, the house, the car, and half your paycheck. Yes, you are in a bad situation. But hopefully this story will make you feel better, because you are not at the bottom of the barrel. The story goes like this, a high level GE divorces his wife of 31 years. This high level GE executive will pay $17.3 million up front, and plus $252,000 a year in alimony and $180,000 a year in GE dividend equivalents. Now that’s really losing your pants. Most of us would never make that kind of money. Anyway, that amount was approximately 50% of the ex-couples estate as deemed by the judge. The point of the story is we’re lucky we aren’t that kind of money to our ex-wives. Luckily the sum is far less.

You must hate women now. You probably want to do bad things to them, just because you are bitter, and angry. You want revenge. That’s just the process of handling grief, and tragedy. This is process is well documented in the Kubler Ross Model.

Now you are at the last stage of the model. You have accepted the fact, and accepted the reality of the divorce. What do you do now? How do you rebuild your life? and Move on? However, it’s not that easy. You still have lingering feelings, and you want to move on but don’t know how. It’s one thing to accept it the fact, but it’s another to deal with your emotions. How do you start on the road to recovery? How do you gain your self-esteem? These are questions that can be answered in this informative self-help guide for men.

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